I am continuing on my journey towards helping the self saboteur within work with me rather than against me.
I don’t believe it is worth trying to eliminate it completely because it plays a part in my life. I would just like it to stop playing such a very active part and to sit back and relax.
The affirmation “either I win or I learn” is a great way to teach myself that when things don’t work out it is not a failure but simply an opportunity to learn.
Avoiding failure, by giving up or believing something won’t work, seems to be how my self saboteur works through me. I then find justification and reasons as to why something didn’t happen or why I gave something up before it succeeded.
Knowing either I win or I learn and feeling that as my truth is a much better perspective to take in life.